For those who have fantasized about being taken by their partner, playing with handcuffs, ropes, and paddles, or wickedly wielding power over their lover, this is the book for them. Award-winning sexologist Jaiya acts as mistress in this transformational handbook, leading readers on a shame-free journey to sexual empowerment with a plan for safely playing on the edge, setting boundaries, and communicating with a partner about one's deepest, darkest, untapped desires.